For 11 years, prison was Ainsley’s reality.
Her addiction played a major role in getting her there, and even while incarcerated, it continued. But about halfway through her sentence, something began to change. She had lost nearly everything and everyone who mattered most to her, including her children. She knew she wanted something different.
Ainsley began participating in programs that could help her prepare for a better future, including cosmetology. But as her release date approached, fear set in. Her mother was in the ICU, and the place she had planned to go after prison was no longer an option.
Then she met Healing Housing Program Director, Keisha.
Keisha came to the prison one day and spoke to Ainsley’s class about her own journey and Healing Housing. Ainsley immediately connected with her story. She saw pieces of herself in Keisha—but she also saw something she desperately needed: hope.
Women transitioning out of incarceration are Healing Housing’s largest source of referrals. For women like Ainsley, release can bring tremendous uncertainty. Without safe housing, support and a strong foundation waiting on the other side, starting over can feel nearly impossible.
After hearing Keisha speak, Ainsley realized she had another option. She didn’t simply want to leave prison—she wanted to change her life. So she made the decision to come to Healing Housing.
A Chance to Start Again
Today, Ainsley has been out of incarceration for just over a month, and already, her life is beginning to look different.
Healing Housing has connected her with medical care, therapy and IOP, where she is beginning to work through years of trauma. She is working toward getting her driver’s license back and has found a job at Thistle Farms.
At first, Ainsley admits she kept waiting for the other shoe to drop. After everything she had experienced, it was difficult to trust that this kind of support was real. But instead, she has continued to be met with people who genuinely want to see her succeed.
She believes women in recovery need time and space to heal, grow and rediscover who they are. Without Healing Housing, she isn’t sure she would have had that opportunity.
Ainsley also believes God had a hand in bringing her here. Her original plan was to live with her mother after her release, but when her mother became critically ill, everything changed. What initially felt frightening and uncertain ultimately led her to Healing Housing.
“I don’t believe anything in our stories happens by mistake.”
Hope for What Comes Next
At 42 years old and a mother of five, Ainsley is looking toward her future with a perspective she once thought was impossible.
She wants to become a successful businesswoman, remain strong in her recovery and, one day, have all five of her children back in her life.
Healing Housing has helped Ainsley recognize something addiction had taken from her for years: her sense of inner strength and self-worth.
Most importantly, she has hope.
For women leaving incarceration and beginning recovery, having a community that offers love, stability and accountability can make all the difference. Ainsley knows there is still work ahead, but after 11 years behind bars, she is finally building a life beyond them.
And this time, she believes in what’s possible.
